Journaling is my number one counseling tool. It’s something anyone can do—children, teens, and adults alike. The key is finding the right approach, and unlike years ago, there are now so many more options available.  I often remind people that journaling feels hard because our thinking around it is skewed. Most of us associate it with the kind of diary we kept as kids—where we either wrote about the worst things that ever happened (“I had to do push-ups at lunch because the gym teacher said I was talking too loud”) or the very best (“I got a note folded into a triangle from my secret admirer!”). Yes, I know I’m showing my age there.